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Behavior3 steps to dining out with your kids

3 Steps to Dining Out With Your Kids

May 1, 2022 by Rachel Raybin Leave a Comment

Is dining out with your kids at your favorite restaurant enjoyable or a nightmare? If you’re spending more time keeping your child from flinging food around the table than eating yours, you’re doing it wrong. The key here is planning and consistency. We say those words a lot when it comes to parenting. But we say them because…

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Meal Time6 rules to teach table manners to your kids

How To Teach Table Manners to Your Kids in 6 Rules

November 17, 2021 by Rachel Raybin 1 Comment

Manners are essential in my book. When you teach table manners to your child they will be accepted and praised everywhere they go. Helping kids learn to stay seated and refrain from throwing cut-up grapes all over the table is an skill that is looked for in preschool classrooms. With practice your kids will learn to wait their turn, to have…

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BehaviorBribe Your Child The Good Bad and Ugly

Don’t Bribe Your Child, Reward Them

November 1, 2021 by Rachel Raybin 2 Comments

Do you bribe your child? You need to stop right now. If you bribe your child you’re setting yourself up for behavior that will backfire. I will admit a bribe is an easy way out, but doing this on a regular basis will back fire on you. Research shows that a bribe only results in a…

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What I Need To Knowdon't skip a grade just because they say you can ask questions

Don’t Just Skip A Grade Because They Say You Can: Part 2

September 21, 2016 by Rachel Raybin Leave a Comment

In part 1 we found out that as parents we need to take a step back and really scrutinize the bigger decisions that will affect our children. Our our egos can get in the way of making the right choices. In any situation you need to take a dispassionate and critical view to fully evaluate…

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What I Need To Knowdon't skip a grade just because they say you can

Don’t Skip a Grade Just Because They Say You Can

September 20, 2016 by Rachel Raybin Leave a Comment

We all want the best for our children. We’re parents. It’s engrained in us; the moment we become a parent that switch is flipped and there’s nothing that will turn it back again. And if we’re told our child can skip a grade of course we want to. It means they’re are gifted, smarter than…

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Food & Nutrition

Fight the Finicky Eater Blues on Thanksgiving

November 23, 2015 by Rachel Raybin Leave a Comment

Picky eaters and preschoolers are basically the same thing in my book. And unless you’re one of those lucky parents who’ve managed to raise a magical being with an adventurous palate, you’ll feel my pain when it comes to figuring out how to feed said cracker-muncher and green-bean-refuser. Throw a big family meal like Thanksgiving…

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Family

6 Ways to Use (Little) Helping Hands on Thanksgiving

November 16, 2015 by Rachel Raybin Leave a Comment

The very idea of preparing for a huge meal like Thanksgiving can be daunting. All those dishes to stir and simmer, the house to clean and decorate, and normal family duties to juggle alongside extended family and their unique personalities means that even the most peaceful house can instantly be thrown into chaos. Take help…

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Behavior

Are You Raising A Troublemaker?

October 2, 2015 by Rachel Raybin 1 Comment

You all know the type I’m talking about. If you weren’t one yourself, you can probably still name the kindergarten class clown or the mean kid in second grade who spent more time in the principal’s office than homeroom. But what happens when you’re the parent of said rabble-rouser? (For the record, this is one…

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Anxiety & Fear

Social Insecurity: 6 Ways To Overcome Shyness

July 27, 2015 by Rachel Raybin Leave a Comment

There are some babies who come out of the womb “politic’in” and ready to run for office, while other children are naturally more reserved. Being timid could be in your child’s DNA and it isn’t necessarily a bad thing. However, it could cause your child to miss out on a lot of fun and new…

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Behavior

House Crashers

May 11, 2015 by Rachel Raybin Leave a Comment

You’ve invited your best friend and her three-year-old son over for a play date. Your own three-year-old is excited his friend is coming over to play. Five minutes into the play date it’s clear your friend’s son is on a seek and destroy mission. Talk about a disaster just waiting to happen. Do you wait…

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Rachel holds a BS in Early Childhood Education and a Masters in Educational Leadership. Innovative and academically forward in her successful “Mommy and Me” curriculum and interactive birthday parties, Rachel was encouraged by her large following of dedicated parents and their children to develop a preschool program. Read More...

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